Men dating more than one woman
This is why you are over-invested in the first place because you arrive before him and expect him to be on the same page as you.The exact point of multiple dating is that you SPREAD your focus on many guys until one steps up.They get mad and that anger doesn't help their cause in the slightest.The more jaded they become, the less inspired the men are to give them what they want.And if you like him, it's hard to just sit around twiddling your thumbs waiting for him to ask you out.So just put him out of your mind and go out on a few first dates with others.Their "loyalty" causes them to lean forward, over invest and pine.Plus, it's totally one-sided: The woman is committed to this non-relationship and he's not. Here's the truth: Dating more guys will make you much more attractive to men than loyalty.
Some guys wait a while for whatever reason before asking you out again on a second or subsequent date.And these women get even more desperate, they chase harder and he retracts further, and the cycle continues....They treat these guys as their boyfriends when the guys are not treating them as their girlfriends.It's true that a guy doesn't want you to date others when he's actively investing time and energy and has already fallen for you.
In that case, he will be claiming you either verbally of by his energy/actions.
Many of them refuse to be "unloyal" to their EUM (emotionally unavailable man, the moniker these women use to denote their non-boyfriends) by dating other guys.